Ask yourself: am I just interested in change, or am I committed? If you feel a pull toward this program, trust it. Growth rarely feels “comfortable” — but making a committed decision is the first step.
Your intuition will often whisper before your mind catches up. If something inside you feels drawn to this work, that’s your inner guidance pointing you toward growth. Trust that voice. Once you decide, we’ll be here to support you every step of the way.
Sometimes, this decision to join us feels illogical. Maybe it doesn't feel like the right time, or the investment feels like a lot of money. But, if beyond your logical mind, your heart is whispering: this is meant for you... trust it.
Here's what PP Member Mary Denman has to say:
"If you are considering joining Proctor’s Principles, and you’re thinking, “No, my life’s too busy. It’s the holidays, I’ve got a lot coming up. I’ll get in the next round” — consider doing it now.
When I joined, I knew I had a trip to Italy for three weeks, plus a summer full of family. I have five adult kids, and spending time with them was incredible. That’s where my focus was. So, have I done all the work? No. But this course has still absolutely changed me.
Brian and Cory say they wrap their arms around you in love — and they really do. Then you have Tommy and Trace. I feel so much love every time I’m in class, whether I’m on screen or not, whether I ask a question or not. I’ve learned acceptance, freedom from guilt, and I’ve been doing a lot of healing just by being here.
When Cory speaks, it feels like she’s speaking directly to me. Brian’s teaching about MMFI — “Make Me Feel Important” — that his dad taught him, he lives it. Even if you don’t speak up, at some point Brian will find you and make you feel important.
Tommy is an amazing part of this program too. He has so much wisdom, and when he speaks, it’s like these pearls just drop into place.
If you’re thinking, “I don’t have the time,” just come. Soak in it. You’ll get what you put in, but even if all you do is show up, you will be blessed. You will grow and change because of the love here.
I’ve been in many communities, but this one is truly special. I think I’m a lifer at this point. If you’ve ever thought about joining Proctor’s Principles, it’s not like anything else. It’s absolutely worth it, and you’ll come away feeling loved, with new friends and cheerleaders in your life."